What a girl wants...

A guy who makes her laugh, a guy who she can trust, and a guy who turns her on. And that none of them know each other! ;)
ha, not really. But sort of, it's just really tricky for a girl to find all those three things in one guy!! And if she does, chances are he's taken.
I got that off a t.v show, the same show that gave me new perspective on tattoos. I've always wanted one, but I've been scared of what I'll think when I'm older. I was watching One Tree Hill and a girl got her boyfriend's number tattooed on her back. One of her friends was telling her how stupid it was and she looked at it from an angle that I had never thought of. She basically said that she loved him now and the feeling was amazing and that even if things didn't work out and they didn't end up together, as long as she could look back at the tattoo and remember how amazing she felt when she got it that it would be okay. So it would serve as a reminder of a good time.
I think I need to do that more. Look at things for what they are and that's that. If a relationship ended why focus on the crap that caused it to end. Just look at all the goodtimes and how happy you are that they happened. Sometimes no matter how hard you try things just won't work out. People will be stubborn and won't see things from other views, values will contrast, things just won't be right. I've decided from now on to stop fighting things that clearly aren't there. I'll just have my memories and that will be that. So there :P