He's just not that into you!

I was just sitting here thinking, pretty much just daydreaming when I suddenly started to question the whole guys like it when the girls make the first move. It should be noted that I'm currently in a great relationship with a guy who I asked out (the first time, lol).
In my experince it has never really worked for me to make the first move. It either isn't all that good a fling or the guy ends up being a creep. Maybe I just have bad taste, but maybe only the good guys will make the first move?
This summer I spilt my guts to this guy I liked, kind of stupid of me, and I fell hard, but meh, I'm over it now, but I totally put myself out there. I guess it happens to all of us. Later on in the summer another guy asked one of my friends about me, I went right up to him and just said, "so you want my number?" Well he turned out to live in a box and be a creep. We won't get into details! Numero three was a guy at school near the beginning of the year. We exchanged numbers and I decided to get the guts up to call him (go me!). Well apparently by me calling him and asking him to hang out he thought I meant " PLEASE, come over and DO me." That was awkward. I just kind of wanted to get to know him. So my question is... do guys prefer girls to make the first move? Or if they actually like the girl enough will they do it? You'd think if the guy actually really liked the girl he'd just go for it and take the plunge. As far as I've seen from my guy friends they all seem to take the first step, but is that the case with all guys? Do they all not care about rejection?
I'm starting to think that if the guy likes you and you've given him your number he'll just take the plunge, so I guess, if he doesn't call that would pretty much mean he's just not that into you.